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Precious cargo

I recently retired from 33 years active service as a Police Officer in two states, Victoria and Queensland. This story is long in the telling but I hope that you will keep reading. It is an old story, a genuine one. I know because I lived it. It happened in Victoria but the story is as applicable here as anywhere else.

I was a Sergeant and I received an order to go back to Police HQ to see my boss. This usually means that you are in some kind of strife. Not this time. The boss was looking for someone with experience to do a difficult job –  deliver a Death Message. It is normally handled by the guys and girls on the car crew. The minute I was told what I had to do I understood the reason for the recall. I left HQ and went to the man’s place of employment, where I was met by his boss and the organisation's priest; I won’t say who he worked for to protect his privacy. Suffice to say that the people he worked for were brilliant in their support and assistance to him.

There I informed him that his wife, his two children, his mother, his father and his sister had all been killed in a road accident on a highway out of Melbourne. They had been going out for the day, the driver had lost control of the vehicle for some reason, the reason has never been established but it may have been the rain and a puddle on the road, excessive speed and inexperience may have also been a factor. The car hit a concrete pylon adjacent to an off ramp, all six people in the car were killed either immediately at the scene or later died in the ambulances on the way to or at the hospital. I had informed him but it wasn't as simple as that. I was not able to just say it one after the other. I had to stop and pause for a short time between each one. I had to be sure that the message had been passed to him, that he understood what he was being told.

To watch that man get beaten down, almost physically, literally, with every new piece of information he was given will haunt me until the day I die. I stayed with him and with his workmates and priest until he was able to comprehend what had been told to him. I gave him all the details I could and the number of a station in country Victoria where he could contact the attending officers and speak to them. For this man, quite literally, his entire family had been wiped out that day. I was there for a number of hours and finally had to go because it wasn't my place to be there, he had workmates and others to be with him.

As I left the place that day it was brought home to me personally what a precious cargo I had in my car every time I drove. I had a wife and two small girls myself at that time. It made me stop and think about my own situation when I had the family in the car. I hope this story makes others think about what they actually have in the car when they set off for the day out or head off during the holiday periods. I don't think that too many of us give a second thought to what might happen when the car is full of family but we should. If this story makes one person think before hitting the right foot a bit hard, or overtaking where there may just be enough room, or driving too fast in the wet, then it has been worth the telling. This one haunts me and always will. Please don't put another officer through the type of situation I found myself in. Take care of the people in your car, you are responsible for them in more ways than you can know.
 


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jeffrey said: April 22, 2009
8:13 pm
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What a thing to have to do. To be the person responsible for delivering news that changes another man's life so profoundly is almost incomprehensible. The job that you, and so many other police do is so honorable, yet so neglected. Most people think of police as the enemy, but who would sign up for a job so misunderstood and maligned if they didn't have community service as their primary concern. Enjoy your retirement mate. You've earned it.
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Tracey said: January 5, 2010
10:44 pm
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Thank you so much for sharing this story. Yours is the story that has touched me the most; the one that will make me more aware of speed, road conditions, most of all precious cargo. What a horrible thing to have to do, I imagine telling someone that they lost one family member would be devastating, but all those people. So sad. Thanks again, go fishing. You deserve it.
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Steve W said: May 22, 2010
7:18 pm
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As a Sergeant of Police myself and the Officer in Charge of a Crash Investigation Unit, I know just what you are saying. It was about 11 years ago that I too was called back to the station and asked to give a similar message to a man. His wife and two teenage daughters had been killed instantly in a head on collision in Far North Queensland. I spent the day with this man and took him to identify his family. Such a tragedy. It could have been avoided. They all can be avoided. I have been a Crash Investigator for over 17 years and it still wrenches my heart to read some of these stories. If only people would take notice and realise the heartache caused to families, friends and all connected with the event.
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